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At the age of twelve he was married to Sulakhni, the daughter
of Mool Chand Chona of Batala. Even the marriage did not turn
his mind towards mundane matters. 'He began to do worldly
tasks, but his heart was never in them; he took no interest in
his home. His family complained: "'These days he wanders out
with the fakirs.'"
Nanak was nineteen when his wife came to live with him. For
some time she succeeded in turning his attention to herself and
two sons were born to them, Sri Chand in AO 1494 and Lakhmi
Das three years later. They also probably had a daughter or
daughters who died in infancy. TI1en Nanak's mind went back
to spiritual problems and he again sought the company of
wandering hermits for guidance. His father tried his best to get
him to tend his cattle or co sec up as a tradesman, but it was
of no avail. His sister brought him over to her home in Sultanpur,
and through her husband's influence got him a job as an
accountant with the Nawab Daulat Khan Lodhi, a distant
kinsman of the reigning sultan of Delhi. Although Nanak took
over the post with some reluctance, he discharged his duties
diligently and won the affection of his employer.
At Sultanpur, a Muslim minstrel, Mardana,joined Nanak and
the cwo began to organize the singing of hymns in the town. The
janamsakhi describes their life in Sultanpur: 'Every night they
sang hymns.... They fed everyone who came.... An hour and a
quarter before sunrise he would go to the river to bathe, by
daylight he would be in the durbar doing his work.' 1'
During one of these early morning ablutions by the river,
Nanak had his first mystic experience. The janamsakhi describes it as communion with God, who gave him a cup of amrit
(nectar) to drink and charged him with the mission in the
following words:
'Nanak, I am with thee. Through thee will my name be
magnified. Whosoever follows thee, him will I save. Go into the
world to pray and teach mankind how to pray. Be not sullied by
Khfzlsii Sama Ciir in 1948. It is a compendium of all the other janamsakhis.
See Appendix l on sources.
13 janamsiikhi, p. 16.