womaniser
formal
Generosity and meanness
bestow something in generous or extravagant quantities on
If we take the first of the qualities listed above, we can say
that it would be nice to be seen as generous. All the same,
being generous just to be seen to be so will damage you.
Generosity practised out of real good will, as it should be,
risks passing unnoticed and you won’t escape a reputation
for meanness. Hence, if you’re determined to have people
think of you as generous, you’ll have to be lavish in every
possible way; naturally, a ruler who follows this policy will
soon use up all his wealth to the point that, if he wants to
keep up his reputation, he’ll have to impose special taxes and
do everything a ruler can to raise cash. His people will start
to hate him and no one will respect him now he has no money.
Since his generosity will have damaged the majority and bene-
fited only a few, he’ll be vulnerable to the first bad news, and
the first real danger may well topple him. When he realizes
this and tries to change his ways, he’ll immediately be accused
of meanness.
Since a ruler can’t be generous and show it without putting
himself at risk, if he’s sensible he won’t mind getting a repu-
tation for meanness. With time, when people see that his
penny-pinching means he doesn’t need to raise taxes and can
defend the country against attack and embark on campaigns
without putting a burden on his people, he’ll increasingly be
seen as generous – generous to those he takes nothing from,
which is to say almost everybody, and mean to those who get