womanish
abstaining from
extramarital
shortcomings
another loyal; one effeminate and fearful, another bold and
brave; one considerate, another arrogant; one promiscuous,
another chaste; one straightforward, another devious; one
stubborn, another accommodating; one solemn, another
superficial; one religious, another unbelieving, and so on.
And I’m sure we’d all agree that it would be an excellent
thing if a ruler were to have all the good qualities mentioned
above and none of the bad; but since it’s in the nature of life
that you can’t have or practise all those qualities all of the
time, a ruler must take care to avoid the disgrace that goes
with the kind of failings that could lose him his position. As
for failings that wouldn’t lead to his losing power, he should
avoid them if he can; but if he can’t, he needn’t worry too
much. In the same way, he mustn’t be concerned about the
bad reputation that comes with those negative qualities that
are almost essential if he is to hold on to power. If you think
about it, there’ll always be something that looks morally right
but would actually lead a ruler to disaster, and something else
that looks wrong but will bring security and success.